Christmas and the Art of Gift-Giving

Knowing how to give a gift is an art, just as expressing gratitude is a gift in itself. However, we could also say the opposite: knowing how to express gratitude is an art, and giving a gift is a true blessing.

It is essential to remember that the value of a gift goes beyond the object itself. A gift serves a fundamental social purpose: it creates connections. A gift is undoubtedly a personal gesture, but it always considers the other person, tailoring the choice to their tastes and preferences.

The art of giving and thanking, even in social and professional contexts, is something everyone can master. Here are some useful tips:

• Take the necessary time to reflect on the nature of the occasion and choose your gift accordingly.

• For Christmas, the occasion might be a family lunch or dinner, an evening with friends, and so on

• Avoid excessive spending or overly expensive gifts.

• Rely on good taste when selecting the gift.

If you are invited to a lunch or dinner, it is important to remember that the hosts have already planned the menu. Showing up with prepared dishes, desserts, or beverages (alcoholic or not) without prior agreement might cause unnecessary discomfort. Hosts should not be required to adjust their menu or arrangements due to an unplanned gift.

The basic rules to follow are few and all boil down to common sense, which calls for moderation, elegance, and personality:

• Avoid all forms of excess.

• Do not opt for particularly expensive or branded items.

• Choose sophistication and good taste.

• Add a touch of creativity.

If you prefer not to bring the gift personally, the timing and method of delivery are crucial to enhancing the gesture. Here are some universally valid rules, not just in Italy but internationally as well:

1. A bouquet of flowers or a floral arrangement.

2. A box of chocolates.

When and how should you deliver the gift?

• The gift should be sent a few hours before the lunch or dinner to the host's address, allowing them time to organise.

• Alternatively, a floral gift can be sent the day after the event as a gesture of gratitude.

• In both cases, it is essential to accompany the gift with a thoughtful thank-you card.

By following these simple rules, the act of giving becomes a pleasure for both the giver and the recipient, strengthening bonds and leaving a positive impression of elegance and care.

EDDA